Every test in our life makes us bitter or better. Every problem comes to break us or make us. The choice is ours whether we become victims or victorious.
Happiness is not shape or size specific. Neither is it gender specific. Nor is it color specific.Most people have no idea how good their body is designed to look and feel.
You are looking for answers to the questions of life. Lots of reflecting about what has happened in the past . Looking at the present that is here and now .
‘Being yourself’ has two clear elements. However, we tend to inappropriately blend both these elements into one. The two distinct elements are – 1) our personality and 2) our character.
When it comes to personality, you should always be yourself. Be Extraordinary. Be Unique. But when it comes to your character, your values define who you are. Your values create a base for your personality. Without the values in place, a person is likely to act on an impulse or even might want to act upon a whim, fancy, craze, obsession, rage, impulse or a lustful desire. And this is can prove to be disastrous to your core being.
So, be yourself in personality, but be sure to refine it with your character, based on your values. After all, when you look back on your life, it’s the blossoming of your character which will have turned you into somebody. A person of worthiness, who you will be proud to call ‘Your True Self.’ And after decades on this planet when you are on your death-bed, you must be able to say without hesitation, Yesss… This is who I Am !!!